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Nice Guys Are Not Good Men And Women Are Paying For It

20 August 2026 1:07:12 Noona Nafousi

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Benjamin Owen has spent 15 years inside men’s groups, led his own, and watched hundreds of men do the work most never start. In this episode he tells Noona Nafousi what men actually say when women are not in the room, including the retreat exercise that leaves grown men sobbing on the floor.You leave understanding the disconnection loop most men are running, the difference between a nice guy and a good man, why the wife as mother dynamic kills attraction, the hormone mechanics behind lost chemistry, and the five words a partner can say that land harder than any advice.Chapters:00:00 Introduction02:00 The crisis of masculinity07:38 Inside men’s groups10:51 Disconnection treated with more disconnection16:33 A boy in a man’s body24:58 Nice guys versus good men26:10 The day the nice guy snapped35:50 The anger epidemic37:35 Grown men sobbing on retreat floors41:07 Polarity, presence, and desire01:02:18 Hard front, soft spine explainedWork with Noona🔹 1:1 Executive Coaching → https://neonoor.com/work-with-us/🔹 Keynote Speaking → https://neonoor.com/services/speaking-events/🔹 Corporate Training & Workshops → https://confidenceclaritystrategycall.as.me/schedule/a95442fe🔹 Coaching Session Questionnaire → https://form.jotform.com/Neo_Noor/coaching-applicationConnect with Noona📲 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/limitlessbynoona🎥 YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/@limitlessbynoona🌐 Website → https://www.neonoor.com📩 Email → [email protected] Nafousi is a Master NLP Trainer, executive search veteran of two decades, and the creator of The Limitless Leader Codes. Through Neo Noor, she works with leaders and organisations across the world to unlock peak performance from the inside out.Subscribe so the next Limitless Podcast conversation lands in your feed automatically.Men’s mental health, masculinity in the modern era, men’s groups explained, relationship polarity, understanding men.

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